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Showing posts with label D/s. Show all posts
Showing posts with label D/s. Show all posts

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Most Sexy Memorial Day Weekend Plans? How Do you Make the Most of Your Weekend?

What are your favorite ways to spend your Sexy Holiday weekend? Ooooo just the thought of an extra day of no outside responsibilities is an instant turn on.

Packing for sluts escape filled weekend! A time slut can be the truly submissive slut she needs to be. No kids No grankids !!! The suite has been long reserved in Masters name.... thoughts race threw sluts naughty mind.... hot tub? sexy room? room service waiting on us ... Master forbidding slut to be in any clothes! The sexy collar packed in its place in the bag.... now all is set! 

Sexy text message comes across sluts phone... vibrating on the edge of the sink this morning... slut stepped out of the shower to take a peek at it. Standing there soaking wet... with a freshly shaven pussy. 

TEXT MESSAGE: Hi Sexy submissive slut your Master is waiting to fuck you into subspace. Keep that pussy hot and wet shaven and smooth Master is going to have his tongue between sluts smooth pussy lips all weekend sucking on that hard swollen clit! Now cum before slut leaves the house and send Master pictures of that hot smooth pussy! 

Laying on the king sized bed.... spread out rubbing sluts hot needy tits pinching twisting nipples. Opening sluts already packed bag stocked with toys for a highly aroused weekend of Master fucking every hole of sluts body. Slowly pushing the biggest cock inside sluts sweet wet hole. Selecting the biggest to stretch that tight lil hole knowing full well Master will be stretching slut beyond the limits. The goal is to slowly train sluts pussy to take Masters fist. The thought of Masters whole fist deep inside is scary but EXTREMELY HOT too all at the same time! The biggest cock already sliding in and out rubbing along the edge of sluts sensitive clit. Instant gush of hot sticky fluid soaking the cock from tip to firm balls molded out of the finest silky smooth material money can buy. Hearing words spoken...sluts eyes open.... sluts husband standing there naked... stroking slowly his big erect cock.... rubbing his balls... watching slut fucking that tight pussy.

"Its so hot to watch you fucking that tight pussy we both have shared for 25 years. Now thinking about how many men will be using that tight lil hole this weekend I think I need to fuck it one last time before you leave!" 

Thoughts racing threw sluts head... its such a good life knowing that sluts husband understands she needs to be fucked for the weekend by her Master. Jake mounts this slut teasing and telling this slut how its ok to let go this weekend. Basically giving his blessing to his wife to be in a world of her own this weekend. The deep love for Jake is very different after all he is the father of our children but Master gives slut that love of being grounded in a relationship to be used for only his pleasure that incredible need to please someone and obey every order. Switching between the two roles hasnt always been easy sure there have been trials along the way but in the end it is well worth it. The rules are extensive... between the three of us there is a deep understanding of everyones roles....it works for us. Jake pulls the big cock from sluts needy pussy ..... still throbbing from need... sluts pussy squeezes Jakes three fingers as he slowly pushes inside this slut. Jake whispers in sluts ear.... you truly are a sex slut arn't you? pussy hot and dripping with cum from jake fucking this sluts pussy first with three fingers as his cock teased sluts clit. He says beg for it slut? Beg like you cant be without it this weekend! PLEASEEEEEE JAKE slut MOANS begging for his big cock! Jake switches pounds the toy cock inside this sluts throbbing pussy.... This slut lets out a scream as he explodes his cum squirting  all over sluts tits.... he slaps sluts face saying go be fucked by your Master but that hot cunt will be coming home to be fucked by ME! 

Enjoy the weekend everyone this slut is going to! 

To Be Continued! 




Friday, May 17, 2013

BDSM - WHAT IS A Submissive?

So I get asked many questions about Submission...........

What does it mean to be a submissive?

What does it take to be a good submissive?

How can I be a better submissive to my Master?

Many of the answers to these questions are very personal and are different in each situation. I will give some of my thoughts and feelings about how I came to submission but want to make it clear that how i think and feel may not be the same for your Master and yourself.

First off ..... What does it mean to be a submissive?

Many miss guided people searching for info about submission tend to think its all about the SEX. While in some cases a weekend or just a play submissive may be just that... only submissive for sex purposes. For me being a submissive is part of my personality and who I was born to be not something that I woke up one morning and decided oh it might be fun to be a submissive today. I think there are very much personality traits that one has which make being a submissive very natural and spiritual sense of self. 

For the longest time my outward appearance was that of dominance and control. I needed to be the one controlling every part of my life due to coping skills learned in order to deal with abusive people in my life. I spiraled down out of control with a diagnosed eating disorder that almost ended my life... in my attempt to control everything in my life including food and the lack there of. During periods of extreme control Ive always been miserable and felt empty needing something more in my life. I built many walls around myself in order to protect what was on the inside. 

To me being a submissive means to be allowed to finally be the person Ive always meant to be from birth. The submissive part of me has always been tucked away in my soul begging to be let out but with a safe partner that will have my best interest at heart. Trust is a huge part of submission! If your Master doesn't have your best interest in mind then sometimes its not submission its control and abuse. Looking back to my past abusive relationships... even back as far as age 12.... i see how i was always an easy target for abuse due to my personality traits of being a submissive. Ive always longed for someone to serve and please in the most extreme way... to give myself to someone so unselfishly. I just see now that i allowed others to take advantage of that and use me for their own needs without regard to what was in my best interest. 

Secondly..... What does it take to be a good submissive?

To me being a good submissive has never been about the act of doing something perfect. When I am matched with the right Master being a good submissive comes naturally. My deepest desire is to serve my Master. I trust my Master to guide me to what will make me a better submissive for his needs. Not all Masters what the same things from their submissive. Something I ask myself threw out the day in every situation is .... What will please my Master the most? When Master is happy it is then that I can be truly happy and content with myself. Oh you will have days when you just don't feel up to doing something or have an internal struggle about doing something that isn't easy or comfortable at the time but in the end that doesn't make you a bad submissive it only means you are human. Ways i work on being a better submissive is to build self confidence to feel better about who i am on the inside and to build my self worth.... of course always putting my Master at the center of all those feelings. 

Third .........How can I be a better submissive to my Master?

1. Work on any problems you have emotionally.... work to deal with the baggage from your past if you have any. My history of emotional/ physical and childhood sexual abuse are all things I work on daily in order to be able to be a better submissive.

2. Ask your Master... being open and honest is the best policy. Find out what his true needs are from his submissive. Get on the same page. Your Master cant read or mind and neither can you his. Keep in mind what his needs are and the rest will come naturally.

3. When your Master directs you to improve on something don't take it personal.... take the information serious and actually work to make it better. Ignoring your Masters advice is not such a great way to build a healthy relationship so always acknowledge his thoughts and feelings on things. If its something you cant do or need additional guidance on to improve it then tell him so. 

4. Don't hide your feelings. I think all to many times a submissive feels they cant share certain things with their Master..... to this I say how can your Master mold you into his true submissive if he don't know the real you. 

Some additional reading that may help......as you read more and more you will find things that relation to your desires and those of your Masters. I encourage everyone to gain as much information as they can when deciding if these things apply to your relationship......

TIPS ON BEING A GOOD SUBMISSIVE

ARE YOU CUT OUT TO BE SUBMISSIVE?

WHAT MAKES A GOOD SUBMISSIVE?

What is a submissive?


So now its your turn....... What does submission mean to you? How do you work towards being a better submissive for your Master? When did you come to realize you are a submissive and how?