Most Sexy Memorial Day Weekend Plans? How Do you Make the Most of Your Weekend?

What are your favorite ways to spend your Sexy Holiday weekend? Ooooo just the thought of an extra day of no outside responsibilities is an instant turn on.

Packing for sluts escape filled weekend! A time slut can be the truly submissive slut she needs to be. No kids No grankids !!! The suite has been long reserved in Masters name.... thoughts race threw sluts naughty mind.... hot tub? sexy room? room service waiting on us ... Master forbidding slut to be in any clothes! The sexy collar packed in its place in the bag.... now all is set! 

Sexy text message comes across sluts phone... vibrating on the edge of the sink this morning... slut stepped out of the shower to take a peek at it. Standing there soaking wet... with a freshly shaven pussy. 

TEXT MESSAGE: Hi Sexy submissive slut your Master is waiting to fuck you into subspace. Keep that pussy hot and wet shaven and smooth Master is going to have his tongue between sluts smooth pussy lips all weekend sucking on that hard swollen clit! Now cum before slut leaves the house and send Master pictures of that hot smooth pussy! 

Laying on the king sized bed.... spread out rubbing sluts hot needy tits pinching twisting nipples. Opening sluts already packed bag stocked with toys for a highly aroused weekend of Master fucking every hole of sluts body. Slowly pushing the biggest cock inside sluts sweet wet hole. Selecting the biggest to stretch that tight lil hole knowing full well Master will be stretching slut beyond the limits. The goal is to slowly train sluts pussy to take Masters fist. The thought of Masters whole fist deep inside is scary but EXTREMELY HOT too all at the same time! The biggest cock already sliding in and out rubbing along the edge of sluts sensitive clit. Instant gush of hot sticky fluid soaking the cock from tip to firm balls molded out of the finest silky smooth material money can buy. Hearing words spoken...sluts eyes open.... sluts husband standing there naked... stroking slowly his big erect cock.... rubbing his balls... watching slut fucking that tight pussy.

"Its so hot to watch you fucking that tight pussy we both have shared for 25 years. Now thinking about how many men will be using that tight lil hole this weekend I think I need to fuck it one last time before you leave!" 

Thoughts racing threw sluts head... its such a good life knowing that sluts husband understands she needs to be fucked for the weekend by her Master. Jake mounts this slut teasing and telling this slut how its ok to let go this weekend. Basically giving his blessing to his wife to be in a world of her own this weekend. The deep love for Jake is very different after all he is the father of our children but Master gives slut that love of being grounded in a relationship to be used for only his pleasure that incredible need to please someone and obey every order. Switching between the two roles hasnt always been easy sure there have been trials along the way but in the end it is well worth it. The rules are extensive... between the three of us there is a deep understanding of everyones roles....it works for us. Jake pulls the big cock from sluts needy pussy ..... still throbbing from need... sluts pussy squeezes Jakes three fingers as he slowly pushes inside this slut. Jake whispers in sluts ear.... you truly are a sex slut arn't you? pussy hot and dripping with cum from jake fucking this sluts pussy first with three fingers as his cock teased sluts clit. He says beg for it slut? Beg like you cant be without it this weekend! PLEASEEEEEE JAKE slut MOANS begging for his big cock! Jake switches pounds the toy cock inside this sluts throbbing pussy.... This slut lets out a scream as he explodes his cum squirting  all over sluts tits.... he slaps sluts face saying go be fucked by your Master but that hot cunt will be coming home to be fucked by ME! 

Enjoy the weekend everyone this slut is going to! 

To Be Continued! 

How to Determine if a D/s Relationship will work out? Focusing on Needs Wants and Hard Limits

When I first started thinking about what a D/s relationship would look like I did a lot of research because I had no clue. A D/s relationship is not something to just jump into lightly....this is someone that you will play with submit to and trust. These type of relationships take time to build a strong bond. How can you find the right Dom if you have no clue what you want out of the relationship? or what your own needs and wants are?  What are your boundaries? Hard Limits? Soft Limits? If you are new to the D/s BDSM lifestyle you may not know yet what you like or don't like. I'm going to show you an example of my needs and wants including relationship limits and play limits.

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What I need in a D/s relationship:

My Master needs to be understanding of me and patient. I would rather not have a new just starting out Master but rather someone with experience in the BDSM community. I would like a Master that has a compassionate side but yet can hold me accountable for things I may do that are not pleasing to him. I don't want to have to try to read my Masters mind I need open and honest communication. I would like the relationship to start out slow till we get to know each other to see if its a relationship match that will work for both of us. Needs to be a Master I can build trust in...a D/s relationship cant work if there's no trust.  


What Activities I would NEED OR WANT:

Some of my preferences are needs things I don't feel I could be without in a D/s relationship and others are just strong desires that could be worked threw with the right Master.

NEEDS: Play I enjoy

Spanking- Paddle/Hand
Intense Physical Play
Bondage- Rope is a huge turn on for me
                cuffs/ restrains leather
Sexy Boots
Spreader Bars
Leashes and Collared- public / private
Anal- Receiving
Oral- Giving and Receiving
Vibrators/ Dildos
Anal Plug
Anal Play
Anal Beads
Watching Porn
Total Power Exchange
24/7 submission
Shaved Clean-Self
Aftercare
Restrictive Rules for Behavior
Disciplined
Nipple / Clit Pinching
Masturbation- Private and Public
                      with Partner Self and /Or 
                      in front of others
Hair Play- Pony/ Pig Tails
Daddy/Baby Girl Relationship
Kneeling
Mind Control
Following Orders- Submission
Double Penetration- Toys
Sexy Lingerie
Objectification
Pain- Mild to Medium
Slapping
Ben Wa Balls

WANTS: Play I would be interested in exploring

Whipping- would like to experiment with various types
3-Some
Bi-Partners
Poly Relationship
Tantra 
Forced Multiple Orgasms
Forced Rape Themed Sex Fantasy/Rape
Orgasm on Demand
Orgasm Denial
Nipple Clamps
Lactation
Female Ejaculation
Double Penetration - multiple partners
Clit Pumping
Breast Fucking
Extended use butt plug/ dildo
Nudity Public (legal) events/ friends
Labia Clips
Hot Oil/Wax Play
Outdoor Sex
Pussy Whipping
Food Play
Ritual Spiritual non-religious 

WHAT ARE MY HARD LIMITS: Play Not Interested In!

NO Urine Play
NO Feces Play
NO Animal Play
NO Needle Play
NO Prostitution
NO UnderAge Play
NO Fire Play
NO Gun Play
NO Choking
NO Electric Play

WHAT ARE MY STRENGTHS:
Compassionate / Dedicated / Passive/ Good Listener/ Communication/ Trustworthy/ Desire to Serve/ Artistic/ Creative/ Selfless/ Giving/ Good Personality/ Enjoy Nature/ Spiritual non religious / Open to new experiences/ Caring/ Willing to Work on Areas in my Life/ Open to change

WHAT ARE MY WEAKNESSES: 
Can be jealous if in a relationship that honestly isn't a strong point / Dealing with childhood Abuse/ Possible Fear of Abandonment (working threw this) / Trust in new relationships/ Body Image- thinking Im way to over wt when I'm in the upper limit of normal for ht

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Making a detailed list of your thoughts on what a D/s type relationship might look like for you is very helpful in looking for the right match. Doing this in a written form can be a useful tool when talking with a future Master about your Needs Wants and Hard Limits. In the beginning there may be many things that you are unsure of and will need some time to explore ..... read about or experiment with a partner and/ or alone. I know for myself my list has changed many times over the years so don't feel like once you write out a list like this that its set in stone! When forming your personal list its important to be honest with yourself .... you will learn a great deal about yourself.... take time when exploring all these areas of your life.