Being A Little... Dynamics of A Daddy Dom Baby Girl Relationship - Father's Day Thoughts

As I woke up this morning thinking about just how I felt about today being Father's Day my thoughts started to wonder a bit. What does the words Father, Dad and Daddy mean to me? 

First off the word Father or Dad stir a very different emotion inside of me. It's the relationship of my birth father, step father or as it applies to "the father of my children" 

                       BIRTH FATHER

 I think this is the only positive male role model i had in my childhood. The dynamics ended up being positive. He is a very laid back calm and caring ...not easy to anger type personality. Hes always been the type of father that no matter what is going on in his life he would drop everything just to be there for his daughter. Even though my parents where divorced when I was 10 this didn't break the bond between him and I . I was very fortunate to have such a wonderful father in my life.

                      STEP FATHER

 This is a very emotional category in my past. He was a very controlling authoritarian type personality. I suppose some of that was due his military training. He was the male that truly distorted my young tender view of males and the world in general. My childhood turned from being innocent and loving to my days filled with childhood sexual abuse ... leading the way to my adult feelings of abandonment and mistrust. My step father gave me my first taste of BDSM ( spanking, ropes, cuffs, pain, and the list goes on) 

           FATHER OF MY CHILDREN  

 This has been a very positive relationship for my children. I can honestly say he has been a good father to them. He has taught them so many good things about being the type of responsible people they have grown up to be... for this I am thankful. He has not always been there for me on an emotional level and is not capable of being that Master/Daddy Dom that i truly need... so for this reason the relationship has at some points lead to feelings of fulfillment... abandonment.... mistrust.

       LIFE'S CHANGING EVENT MEETING MY 

                 DADDY / MASTER

As today is Father's Day its stirred me to think about how my past relationships with males have influenced me to be a little ( Daddy/ little relationship within an adult type relationship). Being a little isn't for everyone and I understand that... many people... mostly ones that don't understand the dynamic find it to be disturbing but really its not about the Doms attraction to children at all... its way different than that.

Everyone that has a Daddy/little relationship is different in how they lay the ground rules and expectations.... No two are the same.

When I first started embracing my submissive side I really didn't set out to find this type of relationship.. the thought had not even crossed my mind. Only by chance in researching on google did i find what this type of relationship was. While reading various submissive blogs I had one of those ahhhhh moments that you just know deep in your soul....

 THIS IS WHAT I AM MISSING IN MY LIFE! 

Fast forward past just the research stage.... I was approached by a Dom in a role play type of virtual world online.... again I was not even on the site in search of anyone or anything... just enjoying using my skills as a graphic artist. The relationship grew slow. As I discovered the Daddy part of my now Master it all made perfect since about how my previous life has effected my draw to this type of Daddy/ little relationship.

Just my personal thoughts as it pertains to my life....

I've always needed the strong emotional arms of a male role model to embrace my emotional needs. Maybe because those lines where blurred so much in my childhood... with boundaries being crossed that never should have by a male role model in my childhood. My Daddy Dom definitely fulfills this need inside of me. His loving arms around me replaces the thoughts of abandonment and emotional harm with safe secure grounded emotions. This theory does not hold true for all Daddy/little relationships not all have a past history of abuse... this relationship is not about my Daddy trying to heal my past abuse... although he does take on this role as it is his choice to do so. 

I have read studies that daughters grow up to seek male relationships much like that which resembles the personality traits of their birth fathers. This idea does make sense to me that my Daddy Dom is much like that... he is calm, caring and comforting. It takes a lot to make my Daddy Dom angry... which I don't think I ever want to cross that line with him and I haven't in the years we have been together. I do think I have learned my place well... I know what is expected of me.... and I don't fight it. 

I think of my Daddy as my guide threw life. I am very much dependent on him for my emotional growth but at the same time can very much stand on my own to handle things that need to be as he allows. Being a little isn't a sign of weakness in my eyes... its about being that special person that Daddy holds in the highest spot in his heart. He is my protector and very much the center of my universe.... the light that guides my every step. To him I am his baby girl and slut... he puts all my needs first and will go to extremes to make sure I am safe and emotionally happy. Daddy challenges his baby girl to grow in her submission and isn't afraid to hand down punishment only because he loves me.

Now for the topic of sexual play... for Daddy and I it is ALWAYS me being very much an adult.... age play is not our thing. As for physical appearance Daddy does give the order for his baby girl to be in pig tails with long ribbons... much like is the way my mother put my hair up as a child. I enjoy it and find that when my hair is up this way i feel an extreme sense of being HIS baby girl! 

I would be very interested in hearing from some other littles or Daddy Dom type relationships about their dynamics... feel free to comment below or email me for a private discussion on the topic.

HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO ALL!  

Most Sexy Memorial Day Weekend Plans? How Do you Make the Most of Your Weekend?

What are your favorite ways to spend your Sexy Holiday weekend? Ooooo just the thought of an extra day of no outside responsibilities is an instant turn on.

Packing for sluts escape filled weekend! A time slut can be the truly submissive slut she needs to be. No kids No grankids !!! The suite has been long reserved in Masters name.... thoughts race threw sluts naughty mind.... hot tub? sexy room? room service waiting on us ... Master forbidding slut to be in any clothes! The sexy collar packed in its place in the bag.... now all is set! 

Sexy text message comes across sluts phone... vibrating on the edge of the sink this morning... slut stepped out of the shower to take a peek at it. Standing there soaking wet... with a freshly shaven pussy. 

TEXT MESSAGE: Hi Sexy submissive slut your Master is waiting to fuck you into subspace. Keep that pussy hot and wet shaven and smooth Master is going to have his tongue between sluts smooth pussy lips all weekend sucking on that hard swollen clit! Now cum before slut leaves the house and send Master pictures of that hot smooth pussy! 

Laying on the king sized bed.... spread out rubbing sluts hot needy tits pinching twisting nipples. Opening sluts already packed bag stocked with toys for a highly aroused weekend of Master fucking every hole of sluts body. Slowly pushing the biggest cock inside sluts sweet wet hole. Selecting the biggest to stretch that tight lil hole knowing full well Master will be stretching slut beyond the limits. The goal is to slowly train sluts pussy to take Masters fist. The thought of Masters whole fist deep inside is scary but EXTREMELY HOT too all at the same time! The biggest cock already sliding in and out rubbing along the edge of sluts sensitive clit. Instant gush of hot sticky fluid soaking the cock from tip to firm balls molded out of the finest silky smooth material money can buy. Hearing words spoken...sluts eyes open.... sluts husband standing there naked... stroking slowly his big erect cock.... rubbing his balls... watching slut fucking that tight pussy.

"Its so hot to watch you fucking that tight pussy we both have shared for 25 years. Now thinking about how many men will be using that tight lil hole this weekend I think I need to fuck it one last time before you leave!" 

Thoughts racing threw sluts head... its such a good life knowing that sluts husband understands she needs to be fucked for the weekend by her Master. Jake mounts this slut teasing and telling this slut how its ok to let go this weekend. Basically giving his blessing to his wife to be in a world of her own this weekend. The deep love for Jake is very different after all he is the father of our children but Master gives slut that love of being grounded in a relationship to be used for only his pleasure that incredible need to please someone and obey every order. Switching between the two roles hasnt always been easy sure there have been trials along the way but in the end it is well worth it. The rules are extensive... between the three of us there is a deep understanding of everyones roles....it works for us. Jake pulls the big cock from sluts needy pussy ..... still throbbing from need... sluts pussy squeezes Jakes three fingers as he slowly pushes inside this slut. Jake whispers in sluts ear.... you truly are a sex slut arn't you? pussy hot and dripping with cum from jake fucking this sluts pussy first with three fingers as his cock teased sluts clit. He says beg for it slut? Beg like you cant be without it this weekend! PLEASEEEEEE JAKE slut MOANS begging for his big cock! Jake switches pounds the toy cock inside this sluts throbbing pussy.... This slut lets out a scream as he explodes his cum squirting  all over sluts tits.... he slaps sluts face saying go be fucked by your Master but that hot cunt will be coming home to be fucked by ME! 

Enjoy the weekend everyone this slut is going to! 

To Be Continued!